This is such a hard question to answer. I feel like everyone has a moment of their own where they realize that they’re beautiful. It took me a really long time after I gained my weight to figure out that it didn’t matter what anyone said. I was beautiful because I loved myself and I thought I was beautiful. It really, honestly is all about your mindset. Every guy i’ve ever known has told me “I’d rather have a girl with an appetite and meat on her bones than someone that’s stick thin.” Also, you should watch this video »> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XpaOjMXyJGk You see yourself so differently than other people. EVERYONE is beautiful. It doesn’t matter who you are or where you came from or how much you weigh or anything else. You’re BEAUTIFUL! You have to find it in yourself to think that. It’s hard, I know, but you can do it. Believe that you’re beautiful and you will have the confidence that you’re looking for. I promise you, everyone has beauty. You have to see it in yourself first. Then, the right person will come along and see it too. <3 Good luck, I know how hard this is. Stay strong and believe in yourself!! If you need anything else, i’m always here. <3